Ross Cottee’s speech to the Victorian launch of 2010’s Brain Injury Awareness Week, Melbourne Town Hall, August 15:
Good morning everyone, my name is Ross Cottee. Seven years ago, I suffered a serious, fall-induced brain injury, and today I’d like to talk to you about the process of falling in love with ABI.
1. Falling in love with ABI
You might think of falling and think: aging population, nursing homes, the elderly. On the other hand you could think of a toddler learning to walk for the first time or a penny thrown down a wishing well. Perhaps an unexpected fall in the stock market? You might have fallen out of your bed once upon a time or tripped over your shoe lace. You might think of American autumns, rivers, lack of co-ordination or gravity. Falls are experienced all the time. For me, the word ‘fall’ reminds me of brain injury – a tragedy? Or a new beginning? Like any piece of art: it is what you make of it. How will you view ‘fall’? – The onus falls onto you.
2. Last year, Brain Injury Australia, headed by Nick Rushworth, prepared an in-depth policy paper on fall-related ABI. The report dispels many myths associated with fall-related head injuries. A fact from this report:alt
* In 2003: nearly half a million people in Australia (2.2% of the population) had an ABI.
– if you don’t have ABI yourself, there is a good chance you know someone with ABI. The issues raised during Brain Injury Awareness Week do not relate to a small section of society.
3. Jack and Jill
As cute as it sounds, the story of Jack and Jill works well as an allegory for the trauma of fall related brain injury. Jack and Jill went up the hill, not expecting the calamity that would follow. Their job was to fill up a bucket of water to give their family and animals a drink. Nothing out of the ordinary, it was business as usual. Then, half way up the hill, a tragedy! Jack looses his footing, hits his crown, and suffers massive head injuries to his frontal lobe as he comes tumbling down. The reality of head injury is forced upon Jack. Fortunately Jill is there to pick up the pieces, and she turns out to be Jack’s carer for the years to follow. The fall is a paradigm shift, it’s a radical change, Jack and Jill will never forget this and the story will live on in history; children STILL sing about the event in kindergartens today!
It takes some time to fall in love with ABI. Jack is likely to experience rejection from peers, rejection from society, and face a system that, whilst supportive, will gear him to have zero or low expectations. A system which, despite its best endeavors, struggles to encourage people to push the limitations of disability within our society; a system that can put a cap on ‘success’ following brain injury.
4. Many people’s prognosis following head injury recalculates itself as much as a GPS system in city traffic! Initially I was advised that I would probably need to be committed to a nursing home where I would spend the rest of my life in a vegetative state. Later as I improved, the prognosis was that if I went home, I would be house-bound, reliant on my family and would never work or support myself. I progressed however, moved out of home, and began to recommence a career that had gone on a significant detour at age 21. I found full-time employment, and am working towards a Master of Social Work degree. The system initially told me that I could not look forward to any of these things.
5. Throughout my recovery, I have been advised not to have great expectations, to settle for second best or nothing at all. This is something that brain injured persons become accustomed to being told. This is why I volunteer time to mentor brain injured persons and am involved in several related programs. I’ve found that too many service providers have given up on the idea of hope and this is my drive I take to the sector. Luckily I made my own high expectations, for if I had believed the initial expert advice given to me by the system I would still be living a highly restricted life, using a walking aid and receiving government benefits.
Service providers need to seealt that brain injury recovery has no limits. All too often people attach limitations on you without understanding you. Be critical of services you receive, it keeps people on their toes. Look and ask around and you’ll find a heap of services that will lead you to all kinds of support. Recently I went to a work expo held at RMIT Uni and was bowled over at the level of support that’s out there for people with a disability. And it’s not just workplace stuff, the ABI Compass Clubhouse, Brain Injury Matters and Melbourne Citymission are just a few organizations dedicated to supporting participation in the community, and maximising quality of life for people with brain injury. I have had the experience of being involved in much of what the sector has to offer and got a lot from participating in it. There are so many opportunities – you just need to know where to look. Get in contact with a service provider!
6. During my stay at the Royal Talbot Rehabilitation Hospital in 2003, the then Federal Health minister Tony Abbott made a visit to the ABI ward for a photo opportunity. He’ll be running for Prime Minister tomorrow, and recently he was quoted as saying that he couldn’t promise ‘a whole lot of extra goodies’ in improving services to people with a disability. Disability action groups felt that not only was the response patronising, it is emblematic of the lack of recognition and understanding by politicians of the basic unmet needs of people with disability in Australia.
People like Brent and myself have picked ourselves from the ground where we fell all those years ago. We now share a social responsibility to help others, share strategies and share inspiration. Some of the most valued advice I’ve received since sustaining an ABI has been from people who share a lived experience with brain injury. Sure, dealing with fall-related ABI is difficult, but it can also be rewarding, offering you a new perspective on life and opportunities to meet and work with amazing people you would otherwise never have come in contact with. By reframing ‘the fall’ as a turning point in life, rather than a stopping point, perhaps we can all fall in love with ABI.
7. As far as the story of Jack and Jill goes: Jack recovered from his fall and decided to go back to university and study Engineering. He developed a pumping system so that no one ever had to walk up the hill again. Jack and Jill lived happily ever after.